Sunday, June 5, 2011

Sweet Baby Hope Martin

Baby Hope was born October 27, 2010 to proud parents Russell and Kim Martin and big brother Gage.  For her story please visit http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/hopemartin.  I did want to share some information that Russell and Kim posted on their website: 
"Three weeks ago I went to my monthly checkup at my doctor to check on the progress of my pregnancy. They had scheduled an ultrasound because in the previous month's appointment they were unable to see all 4 chambers of our baby's heart. During the ultrasound there were concerns because they were still unable to get a good view of the baby's heart. They referred me to a specialist , Dr. Rowe, in Clear Lake, whom we saw the following week. We both went with the expectations that they would be able to get a better ultrasound of the heart and everything would be great. Unfortunately, that was not the case. Dr. Rowe informed us that it appeared that our baby girl has a heart defect call Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome (HLHS). Needless to say, we were taken back by the news. Dr. Rowe then informed us that he would be referring us to Texas Children's Hospital in Houston. We scheduled an appointment for the following week to meet with the doctor at Texas Children's Hospital. Our appointment was last Friday, August 13th.  During our appointment at Texas Children's they did a thorough ultrasound to get a better reading of the heart. Then, we met with Dr. Altmann. Dr. Altmann did a wonderful job explaining what we were in for. Below is a brief article I found that does a good job of explaining what HLHS is:

Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome (HLHS) is a condition in which the left side of the heart is underdeveloped. Usually, the left ventricle, the left atrium, the mitral valve and the aorta are affected. It is called a syndrome because it can encompass several different variations and varying degrees of development of these parts of the heart. 
 
To understand HLHS, it is helpful to understand how a normal baby's heart works. The heart is comprised of four chambers: the upper chambers are called the left and right atria, and the lower chambers are called the left and right ventricles.  
 
Very simply, in a healthy heart blood flows from the right atrium to the right ventricle where it is then pumped through the pulmonary artery to the lungs to be oxygenated. Blood then flows back to the heart via the left atrium to the left ventricle, which pumps this oxygenated blood through the aorta out to the body. This is how the body's organs and tissue receive oxygen, which is vital. When a baby has HLHS, the left side of the heart is underdeveloped so it cannot sufficiently pump the oxygenated blood out to the body. 
 
Babies with HLHS do not have problems while in the womb - it is only after birth that the heart fails to work properly. This is because all babies receive oxygen from the placenta while in the womb, so blood does not need to go to the lungs. In addition, there is an opening between the pulmonary artery and the aorta, called the patent ductus arteriosus (PDA) that is present in all babies. It allows the blood to go from the right ventricle out to the body, bypassing the left side of the heart.  
 
The PDA usually closes a few days after birth, separating the left and right sides of the heart. It is at this time that babies with undetected HLHS will exhibit problems as they experience a lack of blood flow to the body. They may look blue, have trouble eating, and breathe rapidly. If left untreated, this heart defect is fatal - usually within the first few days or weeks of life."

I have wanted to post this for so long, but I did not want to over step their privacy.  The Martin's were our neighbors in Houston and we moved right before we found out they were expecting their sweet baby girl.  Hope is still in the hospital and has had a rough road thus far but is staying strong.  My wish for Hope is to receive prayers from each and everyone who reads this, that they may pass her precious name to Prayer Warriors, Pray Lists, and friends and family who will lift her and her family up.  I pray for her health and healing.  Thank you Kim for letting me share your story.  We miss you guys!

 Baby Hope looking oh so cute!
Mommy and Hope

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Happy 21st Birthday Lindsey

Ashley and Lindsey

Lindsey Anne turns 21 years old today and we want to wish her a Happy Birthday!  Where has the time gone?  We are so proud of you Aunt Lulu!


Avery and Lindsey
 Happy 13th Month Birthday sweet girl!
Reading!!!!!  I think I know exactly what I am saying!


 Pondering her next move
 The look of mischief
 She is her mother's child...........
 ..........in more than one way!
Who says she's too young to learn to clean!  Momma needs a handy helper!

 
So Avery is a full fledged toddler.  That is hard to roll off the tongue...........Where is my baby?  I will not drag on for paragraphs at a time like your first twelve months because I am probably trying to catch up on laundry, clean the house, or just stare at you in the monitor and think about how lucky your mommy and daddy is to have you!  So here is a brief update:

What you have been up to:
-You are running everywhere
-I think you need a helmet as much as you hit your head.  I pray that everything is ok with your skull.
-You eat whatever we eat with four five ounce sippy cups of whole milk.
-Size 4 diapers
-12 month clothing
-You love the water
-You can sign "more" and we are working on "drink", "all done", and "food"
-You are talking up a storm, but the only thing we can make out is "dada", "momma", "dye", "doag", and "hi"
-You can show us where your mouth is and you still put one finger up when we say "how old are you?"
-You have an attitude that is for the birds; there are time outs, swats on the backside, and "be nice" talks throughout the day.  This is another thing I pray for daily......."God give me the strength to be a good example."
-You have found your voice, oh wait, your screaming voice.  You use it when you are happy, mad, hurt, sad, glad, etc........

But at the end of the day you give really good kisses and hugs and you make eye contact when we talk to you.  I know all of the other things are stages that you will only learn to grow out of with the guidance of your parents and I hope and pray daily that we are doing a good job with that.  We love you very much and thank you for our daily laughs, smiles, small tears in the eyes due to joy, and complete exhaustion when we lay down at night.  We love our busy little baby Avery and we are so proud to be your parents.

Memorial Day 2011

 We had a wonderful weekend with beautiful weather! We spent countless hours in the pool both in our neighborhood and at one of my best friend's house, Marissa, in Fort Worth! Avery loves the water and is completely fearless so we have to watch her like a hawk. She will walk right into the water without missing a beat. We now all have really good tans and a small taste of what our summer is going to consist of.  We worked in the yard, cooked out, cleaned house, and just enjoyed having a low key weekend with each other.  We even made a Braum's run!  Nothing quite like a chocolate malt.  Here are the very few pictures we took........I have no idea why I did not take more pictures.     

So after the "big" pool down the street, we decided to get Avery's pool out that she got for her birthday and put it up in the backyard.  In my mind the pool was much bigger than what it turned out to be.  I filled the whole thing up with baby Avery in a tiny little section.  She was fine though, but I felt huge. She had fun regardless!
 Playing with her water table toys!
 Laying out with momma
Getting tired and ready for a nap


On Monday we spent the day with Hilary and her husband, Elizabeth and her husband, Bonnie and her boyfriend, and many other friends at the Hampton's.  Marissa and Jordan cooked for everyone and opened their home up to all of us!  We had so much fun catching up and talking about everything under the sun.  I have some of the best friends and we have so much fun together.  We missed everyone that could not be there.  It was a very enjoyable Memorial Day!  

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Uncle Larry

Jason's Uncle Larry went to be with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Saturday May 7, 2011.  He was an avid golfer and will be remembered for his love of his family.  Please lift the Cathey family up in pray and pray for their strength in this difficult time.

Monday, May 9, 2011

Happy Mother's Day

Side note: I lost everything I typed and this is my second attempt........frustrating.
My second Mother's Day was as special as the first. The day started off with Jason making me breakfast before church. It was delicious and so very nice. I love our church! The sermon was all about mother's and our pastor made all the moms feel so special. Being a mom is the most awesome feeling and I find myself thinking about how lucky I am on a daily basis. I feel so privileged to be a mom; especially Avery's momma! I have so many friends who have struggled to become a mom or are still struggling and I pray that God allows them the opportunity all in good time. After church, my parents, Lindsey, and Jason's mom and step-dad came over for lunch. I cooked baked chicken, ranch style beans, green beans, mashed potatoes, macaroni, salad, and bread. I am really enjoying taking over a bit with family meals. After lunch, we all got a chance to visit and then we walked down to the pool. My parents really enjoyed watching Avery play in the water and Nana took lots of pictures. After everyone left, I took Avery jogging (Mommy jogged, Avery slept!). I am so blessed to have so many people in my life that make it special! Thank you babe for all you do!
I want to say this about my mom: She is loving, caring, honest, selfless, giving, kind, and most of all an excellent example of what a mother should be. Thank you for loving me unconditionally and being such a good Nana to my Avery! You have overcome a lot and to become such an amazing woman and mother that you have become is truly a gift from God. So I leave all you moms with this:
A Mother's Prayer:
Philippians 4:6, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."
As moms we worry about everything, it is our job, but rest with this promise that God will take care of you.
Sweet baby face!
Papa being silly with Avery's float!
One of my favorite pictures. Thank you Nana for taking pictures for us!
Daddy and Avery
Having fun in the sun
Precious baby
Holding on
Happy Mother's Day
I love this little baby so very much!
My wonderful breakfast that Jason made me before getting ready for church! Yummy!

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Splish Splash

Our new hangout, the backyard! Nana and Papa got Avery this awesome table and chairs for her birthday and she loves to sit and feel like a big girl!
Avery hard at work with her new water table! Ms. Holley, her awesome sitter, has one and she told me Avery loved it. So when her birthday rolled around and her Gigi and Pawpaw wanted to know what to get her, this is what I told them. She was so excited to finally get to play. It has been so chilly the last couple of evenings, so this evening was perfect. Mommy even had time for girls night out! Thanks daddy for watching our precious little girl.
Mesmerized by the water!
Maddie even wanted to play
One concentrated little face! It this not her Daddy through and through or what? So cute!
In action

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

What am I looking forward to......

I am so ready for summer to be here. I have four weeks left of work and then two and a half months off with my sweet baby girl and wonderful husband. I wanted to make a list of things to do/looking forward to so I do not forget!
I am looking forward to:
  • Waking up late and going to bed early
  • Putting Avery in bed with us in the mornings to watch Disney
  • Working out in the mornings rather than the evening
  • Spending countless hours at the park
  • Splashing in the cool water at the pool (the pool, park, and splash park is a block and a half from our front door. NICE!)
  • Four-wheeling in Colorado
  • Watching Avery at the beach for the first time when we travel to Destin, Florida with my family
  • Working on my Photoshop skills....or just getting some skills due to a lack of.
  • Listening to Avery laugh
  • Teaching her new things
  • Going to San Antonio: visit the Williams, Sea World, and the Outlet Mall
  • Dates with my husband on the back porch
  • Finish the backporch......more of a Jason project! :)
  • Reading my Kindle
  • Soaking up some sun

I have planned many things, but most importantly I want to relax! Last summer was hard because I was still trying to recover from my horrible headaches and we moved from Houston to McKinney. Not an easy task! I want to enjoy everything this summer and just take it in. June 4, please get here quick. August 22nd, please stay far away!

Our little CUPCAKE!

Avery's birthday was the 27th of April and we had her party on the 30th. We had so much fun with our friends and family and we missed those who could not attend. Avery is a blessed baby and we have so enjoyed watching her change and grow into a little person this past year. It was a wonderful celebration of a sweet baby girl who is loved by many. We are so thankful for everyone who shared in her special day. It is still hard to believe that she is ONE!
Avery's Nana made these super cute cupcakes for the yard and the door! Thank you mom!
I displayed her monthly pictures so everyone could see her changes.
Beautiful cookies made for party favors!
1 of 3 yard cupcakes
Invite
The most delicious cake! Thank you April!
Food with cupcake picks
The birthday sign her momma made
So interested in her gifts!
Thank you Grandpa Powell! I love my car!
Before cake
After cake ........and quite unhappy. :(
New outfit and still going strong
Cute baby bottom!
I love you Jason and Avery